My Quora response to "Are there any studies about how reading stories to your children affect their development of empathy?"  -  http://www.quora.com/Are-there-any-studies-about-how-reading-stories-to-young-children-affects-their-development-of-empathy/answer/Teresa-Gonczy

Reading fiction seems to increase empathy, possibly because of becoming emotionally engaged with characters, allowing the reader to experience different ways of being and different mental states.  Neuroscience has shown that reading about a specific experience (smelling perfume, kicking a ball) can cause a reader's brain to fire similar neurons as actually doing the experience in real life.  "And there is evidence that just as the brain responds to depictions of smells and textures and movements as if they were the real thing, so it treats the interactions among fictional characters as something like real-life social encounters."  from The Neuroscience of Your Brain on Fiction

Most of the reading studies specifically on empathy have been done with adults.  
* Bal & Veltkamp experiments showed that if readers are emotionally transported by the story, they tend to show more empathy after reading - How Does Fiction Reading Influence Empathy? An Experimental Investigation on the Role of Emotional Transportation  
* Dan Johnson's experiments have shown similar results - Transportation into a story increases empathy, prosocial behavior, and perceptual bias toward fearful expressions  
* Mar & Oatley did a correlational study showing the more fiction a person reads, the better they are at perceiving emotion in the eyes and picking up on social cues, even when they controlled for personality openness and other characteristics - Page on Ucla

One study by Mar et al done with children involves an aspect of empathy called theory-of-mind, or the ability to understand that different people can have different preferences and perspectives.  For example, one type of theory-of-mind experiment involves a child and an experimenter with two bowls between them - one of cookies (or similar food that the child enjoys) and one of broccoli (or similar food that the child does not like as much).  The experiment looks at whether the child will give cookies or broccoli to the experimenter after the experimenter has shown that they prefer broccoli over cookies - namely, can the child understand that another person has different preferences, that the other person has a different type of mind?  Before 18 months old, babies typically give the experimenter cookies, showing that they did not have developed much theory-of-mind yet,  Starting around 2 years old, many toddlers have started to understand others' states of mind better, and will often give broccoli to the experimenter.  Theory-of-mind continues to develop throughout childhood (and even into adulthood). 

What Mar, Tackett, & Moore found was that even after controlling for age, gender, vocabulary, and parental income, preschoolers's exposure to storybooks predicted their theory-of-mind abilities.  Page on Www

So while there are not an abundance of studies on reading & empathy in young children, the studies in adults and the one study with preschoolers do seem to suggest that reading fiction, including storybooks, enhances empathy development in children.

An interesting aspect to look at in further studies would be the influence of the parent/adult's interaction with the child during the reading of the story.  Is it just the story itself that enhances empathy?  Or is empathy also enhanced by the parent talking with the child about the characters, helping to explain how the characters feel and why they react the way they do in the story.  Dr. Mar conjectures that parent-child conversations about different mental states may help with the development of theory-of-mind.

If you are looking to increase empathy in your child, this webpage Teaching Your Child Empathy has some tips and advice, including reading!  (Plus more empathy in children study references at the bottom of that webpage)

"Humans have spent most of the past 150,000 years living in multi-generational, multi-family groups. These relatively small tribes were characterized by rich human interactions that aren't present in developed Western societies. In these clans, the ratio of mature individuals to young children was roughly 4:1. That is, there were four caregiving individuals for every little one. Fathers, sisters, uncles, older cousins, aunties, and other kin surrounded children - and all of them could educate, discipline, nurture, and enrich. Two parents, many caregivers. That enriched social environment is what our brains expects."
"In the modern era, however, the relational milieu has collapsed. In 1850, the average household size in the West was six people - today it's three or fewer. A full quarter of Americans live completely alone. Hours and hours of television, educational ratios of 1:30 in school classrooms, mobile families, transient communities, nuclear families, broken families - all have contributed to reductions in the number and quality of relationships available to young children at the age when their relational needs are highest. Indeed, we now consider a ratio of one daycare worker to five children adequate! That is one-twentieth of the relational richness of a 'natural' hunter-gatherer setting."

-Introduction from Born For Love, why empathy is essential - and endangered.

The more 'successful' people I meet and the more my friends do amazingly awesome stuff, the more I am also reminded that we are all just people. We're not perfect, we all have our own inner struggles. We're never 100% productive or effective. And we all need close friends who have fun with us and engage us in interesting conversations. And who support us in working toward our dreams and celebrate with us when we reach our goals. And who are also there to help dust us off when we fall, and hold us when we're stressed, and who stay with us as we grow and learn, and as we change priorities and become our future selves.  :-)

One of my goals with my store is to have every person who comes in the door to walk out happier than they walked in, and hopefully that happiness will ripple out into their lives and the world.


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